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Focus on Being Healthy

Often I run across women in the grocery store, clothing store, and they are putting themselves down. I mean they are really digging in for the kill, “I am so fat. I am so ugly. I hate my body. Do you see this one wrinkle on my face. Oh man I am a troll. I wish I were skinnier. I wish I had her body. I wish I could be just like…(fill in some unrealistic expectation).

There is such a push in our society to be an airbrushed version of ourselves. I wonder often where the obsession with skinny and enhanced body parts came from. It’s okay if you are naturally thin. It’s also okay if you are not.

No one at our funerals will say, “They sure could have lost those last ten pounds.” It’s ludicrous to keep allowing the scale or a preconceived idea of beauty to stop you from enjoying life.

Love the body you are in and celebrate it. Say it with me, “I love my body.”

I was talking to a young lady who has always hated being a girl. Then she developed breast cancer. I told her, “You know hating yourself impacts your soul and your soul health impacts your natural (body) health.”

The body, soul, and spirit are connected. Sickness in one area impacts the others.

I knew of another lady who hated being female and she developed ovarian cancer. She hated being a girl. She died last year. She cursed her feminity with her words and cursed the gender given her at birth. Her self hatred manifested in her body.

Is all cancer the result of self hatred, no. Can our lack of love for who we are impact our bodies, absolutely.

There can also be copious amounts of time wasted on trying to be thin, skinny, get the last 10 pounds off that the joy of life is removed. I read an article a few weeks ago of a mom who died because she overdid it with protein consumption. Her pursuit of the “Perfect” body led her to the grave. What good is her “Perfect” body 6 feet under? Underground her body is rotting and decaying. Nothing but bones will lay in that grave. Her children will grow up without her. What good is skinny if you are dead?

Life is a gift! It may not always feel that way with the challenges, pressure, and pains of life. Yet life is a gift. Some people did not wake up this morning, or they have lost everything, or they are hanging on for dear life. What are we doing to enjoy life, really enjoy it! How are we focusing on being healthy…

Let’s talk about healthy life focus…

Healthy is more than meal plans and exercise. Healthy is taking care of ourselves, emotionally, and having our priorities straight.

What S.M.A.R.T (A SMART goal should be specific, measurable, achievable, realistic and time-bound) goals are you setting for yourself? What are you doing to get closer to your personal goals?

This year I stated I wanted to focus on some of my own goals. I have. I have lost 25 pounds. I traveled to the Grand Canyon (bucket list item). I finished the manuscript for my second book. I stopped investing in one sided relationships. I limit time with toxic people. I am working on my third book and hope to get in the recording studio in the next 12 months. I spoke at a regional women’s conference for the first time ever. I quit some volunteer jobs that were killing me.

I realized in most situations I am the responsible person. If someone needs help and it’s legitimate, I will try to help. I tend to put others first. Yet life requires balance. If you are putting others first and they are putting themselves first, guess what, you will be left depleted. They will leave you cleaning up messes, handling situations, and they will ride off into the sunset on holiday. They will have no problem telling you no, quitting, dropping the ball, yet you will be left a wreck with only yourself to blame. Boundaries baby boundaries.

Relationships were meant to be mutual blessings, not one sided blessings. Who constantly has their hand out and deposits nothing? That is not your friend.

We need to focus as much on our own goals as we do on the goals of others.

If you are that person always putting yourself first, this does not apply to you. If you are a giver and try to invest in others, this applies to you. Are you sacrificing your own health (mental, emotional, and spiritual) for others and ending up burned out? If so, reeval your priorities. Reassess your boundaries. You are not responsible for other people, unless it’s a small child, your child. Adults are to take care of their own lives.

“Selfishness is placing your wants above others needs. Self care is placing your needs above another’s wants.”

Who are you investing your time in for relationships? Why? Do those people even try to match your effort? Relationships are not about what we can gain. There is a problem if everyone connected to us has their hand out.

What things have you wanted to do that you put off doing? Can you pick those up again?

What is toxic in your life? What are you doing about it? Ask yourself is what you are doing today getting you closer to where you want to be tomorrow? Then move in the direction of the best yes.

My hope is you pursue health. Pursue healthy in every facet of life.

To your health…

Erin L Lamb

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Motivation (Get Moving)

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Good morning beautiful people. I hope you had an amazing time with your families this holiday. Two holidays down and 1 to go. January 1rst is normally the day people sign up for some Gym program or wellness program. It’s great to set goals and have goals.

The problem comes a few weeks later when the motivation to get fit runs right into the ,”Why aren’t I seeing better results?” The expectation is, “Exercise day 1, see results day 2.”

The reality is if you’ve been packing on the pounds for quite some time, your body will not be eager to get rid of them. It’s part of survival. Unlike our ancestors who may have faced a famine in their lifetime, we may not and no one has communicated this to our bodies. And if you’ve spent tons of time yo-yo dieting, you’ve trained your body to hoard fat. The human body is wired for survival.

If you’re starting a program this new year, give yourself six weeks to see results. Yes! Wait until the end of February before you quit. I’d prefer you not quit! 90 days is optimal. When I started P90X2 this Spring, you could see the differences in each 30 day photo. From day 1 to day 60 was drastic change. From day 1 to day 90 was incredible.

If you can, document your changes with photos. The scale may not move much if you’re weight lifting. You should see a difference in inches and body composition.

Don’t be discouraged by lack of immediate results. You didn’t gain 10 pounds over night. You won’t lose 10 pounds of fat overnight. Slow and steady wins the race.

The objective isn’t the number on the scale to move, you can lose muscle and water weight. The goal is to cultivate a healthy lifestyle with proper eating and exercise. The goal is health!

Some tips for your journey:

1. No matter how awesome your workout program is, if you’re not eating properly-you will not get optimal results.

2. Starving your body leads to your metabolism slowing. Eat at least 1200 calories women and 1500 men.

3. What you eat and the frequency of your meals matter. Protein, vegetables, low glycemic foods (minimal spikes in blood sugar) are your friends. Try not to let more than 3-4 hours go on between meals. Try not to eat past 9 PM.

4. Hydrate baby hydrate. Guzzle that H20 that helps clear the body of toxins.

5. Minimize or ditch your processed & fast food. Opt for whole foods. Whole foods are minimally or not processed. It came from the ground or feeds off the ground or you can pronounce it’s name.

6. Sugar, white bread, white rice, excessive salt, and high glycemic foods are not your friend. Many help you retain water, and cause spikes in blood sugar. Stable blood sugar promotes fat loss.

Before you start a program, check with your doctor. 🙂

I’m cheering for you. Hoping to post more motivational things in 2015!

You can do this!

Erin

Happy New Year.

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When You Feel Like Giving Up

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Hey fitness friends. Tonight I wanted to talk about something we all encounter on the journey to wellness, the desire to throw in the towel!

The reasons may vary. It could be a thought, “What’s the use, I’m not seeing results,” or “I’m tired of eating healthy food or counting calories.” Here’s some motivation to keep you going.

Eating healthy is cheaper and better than being on medication. Many of the health problems we see plaguing the planet can be traced back to poor diet and sedentary lifestyles. Food is fuel. Put the wrong fuel in for prolonged periods of time and the body begins to break down.

Another added benefit: Exercise helps fight aging and the effects of gravity. Billions of dollars are spent yearly to get people to buy products that will create youth. Externals do nothing for a body that is unhealthy. It starts from within. Eat those fruits, vegetables, drink water, forgo smoking, too much sun exposure, and exercise regularly.

Keep going because your future self will thank you!

Keep going to be a good example for people around you and your family!

Keep going because your body is a temple, treat it with honor and respect!

Keep going because you love yourself!

Keep going because you can do this!!!!

I get tired just like everyone else, but when I think of the progress made, it makes me want to keep going!

I can do this! You can do this!!!

Cheering for you!

Erin

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