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Embrace Your Shape, Eat for Your Body Type

  
Hello fitness friends!

I hope you are doing well. I hope you are taking care of your body, soul, and spirit. All three need TLC (tender, loving care). 

Over the past few months I have been reading more articles on loving your shape, embracing your unique body, and working with what you’ve got. 

It brings such confidence to love the body we have, accept it, and seek to enhance/embrace what we have. 

We were not created or designed to look like everyone else. 

We are individuals, unique, and our structures are impacted by our DNA. We can cut, nip, tuck, modify, liposuction, starve, take suppliments, and seek to change the outside, yet health starts with loving who we already are. 

Once we love who we are, our shape, our genetic makeup, then we can seek to work with what we have been given. Healthy inside (soul-mind, will, emotions), leads to healthy outside. 

Example. I am curvy. I have been curvy since maybe 14. I hated that I was the girl who looked more like a woman than a girl. Why? Because boys and grown men looked at me in ways I did not like. 

We spend lots of time talking about how men are visual and women need to cover up, yet some things can not be hidden unless you wear parkas or tents. 

A young girl should not be shamed for something she has no control over. Even in modest clothes, some shapes can be seen. I am not stating all attire is appropriate. I am saying self control is something all should learn. Children are not sex objects. People were not created to be objectified, but to be loved-and love does not seek to take or reduce people to objects for pleasure. 

I so wanted to just be stick thin, no curves. Well, that did not happen. 

At 16 I started exercising more, wearing hockey jerseys, eating less…all attempting to be comfortable in my skin and to cease being sexualized by men. I wanted and still want to be a person, not a sex object. I recall and hear the things men state about women they are overly sexually drawn to. They do not care if she has a brain, is courageous, compassionate, etc…they just see one thing-a mean’s to get their fantasy met. I have heard many men (I work with mostly men) say women are only good for one thing, meaning sex/reproducing children. 

Why do I tell you this story? Because body shaming does not just happen to heavier people. It happens to thin, curvy, all shaped people. Body shaming is not okay. For us to do to ourselves or for others to do to us. I found I started gaining weight and loving not getting male attention, at least not lustful male attention. They actually looked me in the eye, treated me like a person, not eye candy. 

I also found I needed to love the body God gave me despite the reactions of other people. I am curvy, a mesomorph (more muscle than fat), strong, athletic, and I own the body I am in…meaning I love my body. 

  
Once you embrace your shape, eat for your body type. 

I learned that my body works best when it is given more protein than carbs. If I eat too many carbs I gain fat. If I eat more protein I lose fat. I have a fast oxidizing metabolism. I have included the test below so you can see what type of metabolism you have. 

Oxidizer Test  

What works best for you? It is not about a number on a scale or other’s approval. Do you love you? Do you eat for your health? Do you like you? Does your body respond well to what you are eating? If not, what can you change? 

Here is another resource for you. 

Master Your Metabolism
Maybe that high carb, low fat diet or meal plan is not working for you because your metabolism works best with high protein. Maybe the calorie restriction is not producing results because the fuel type, food you are giving your body is not the right kind of fuel. 

Whatever you do sweet friends, learn to love yourself. Love your shape, treat yourself with respect and honor. You are fearfully and wonderfully made! 

Xoxo, 

Erin 

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Love Your Body! ❤️

  
Hello wellness friends! 

You are altogether lovely. Yes you are. Say it with me, “I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” Let that sink into your soul and spirit. If necessary get a note and post it to your mirror. Say it daily. There is power in your words, our words. We begin to believe what we repeadily hear. 

I do not know about you, but when I see the magazines at the grocer check out they are telling me over and over that I need me + something to be okay. I need to have a certain hair color, eye color, hairstyle, bust line, waist circumference, hip and bottom shape. I need to look a certain way, dress a certain way, stay 18 forever, have certain relationships, and everything will work out okay. Let me tell you a little secret. Marketing is mostly aimed at telling you that you are missing something so you can buy something. 

I am quite pleased companies like Dove are starting campaigns to accept and love who you are. Check out some of their videos below. 

Dove (You Are More Beautiful Than You Think)
Dove (Beauty Evolution)-the power of makeup and photoshop
Why is it so important that we love ourselves? Well, life is quite painful if we are continually fighting ourselves. Life is not as enjoyable if we are consistently battling the lies of, “You are not good enough. You need to be more like that person. If you weigh a certain amount or wear a certain size or look a certain way, have certain things or relationships, then you will have the perfect life.” 

You can see on the mazagines those with the coined “perfect” bodies, right connections, and money to excess do not have the best lives either. Why? Because happiness is an inside job. 

If I love who I am, I can love my neighbor as I love myself. If I love who I am, I can be content in my skin. If I do not love myself, I will waste time and energy comparing, competing, and trying to fit into a mold I was not designed for-it’s wasted time. 

Low self esteem is also toxic to the soul (mind, emotions, will). We were not designed for insecurity or low self worth. We were made for love!   

I believe the source of love is God. That unconditional love must be received and accepted. When we love ourselves (receieve God’s love), our words reflect that love. Our relationship choices reflect that love. Our food choices begin to reflect that love. We attract better things and refuse things that damage our soul. When we love ourselves, what we tolerate   changes. When we love ourselves, we are willing to take more risks! 

It is not about the number on the scale or dress size. It is not about measuring up to a societal standard. It’s about being healthy, the best version of ourselves, and pursuing a life that hopefully inspires someone else to be the best version of who they were created to be. 

So here is a 7 day challenge for you. 

1. Make a list of the features and qualities you like most about yourself. If you’re struggling to put anything down, survey some friends and family. Review the list over the next 7 days. Give thanks for everything on that list. 

2. Start speaking postive affirmations daily over your body. 

  • I am fearfully and wonderfully made. 
  • My body is beautiful. 
  • I love who I am. 
  • I am of tremendous worth! 

3. When you feel the need to compare with someone else or put yourself down, go back to steps 1 and 2. 

I proclaim and declare loudly over you that you are beautiful (handsome), wonderfully made and of tremendous worth! 

Cheering for you! Be kind to yourself. You are loved!!❤️💯

  
Photo credits: Pinterest. 

Xx, 

Erin 

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